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Letting Go of 'Hard Means Worthy'

May 22, 20251 min read

Letting Go of 'Hard Means Worthy'

Somewhere along the way, many of us picked up the idea that if it’s not hard, it’s not worth

it. That struggle equals value. That we must hustle, prove, push, and strive because only

then have we “earned” the right to rest, to receive, or to feel proud.

But here’s the quiet truth I’ve come to sit with: Ease doesn’t mean you're doing it wrong. It

might actually mean you're finally doing it right for you.

This belief that “hard is worthy” shows up in sneaky ways:

- Feeling guilty when something flows easily

- Overthinking or overworking tasks that could be simple

- Believing you must struggle before you’re allowed to succeed

- Dismissing moments of joy or rest as “unproductive”

Especially in the neurodivergent space, many of us have lived lives built on masking,

adapting, and pushing through. We’ve been told we’re too much or not enough and so we

try harder. We add more to the to-do list. We measure our value by our output.

But what if we don’t need to keep proving ourselves? What if rest, joy, and ease aren’t

rewards but birthrights?

Letting go of the “hard is worthy” mindset doesn’t mean giving up. It means learning to trust

yourself. To follow the path that feels aligned, not the one that ticks all the boxes of what

you think you should be doing. It means recognising that ease can coexist with growth,

challenge, and ambition it just doesn’t have to hurt.

What would change in your life if you were willing for things to be easier?

This isn’t about taking shortcuts. It’s about taking the pressure off. It’s about choosing

softness over struggle and knowing that’s still strong.

Be you, everyone else is taken.

Love, Tracey

Tracey is the founder of Kitsune Coaching Solutions; her vision is to help all people find their balance for a better quality of life.

Tracey

Tracey is the founder of Kitsune Coaching Solutions; her vision is to help all people find their balance for a better quality of life.

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